Who better to turn for healing, than Allah?

“Who better to turn for healing, than Allah? Surely He’s As-Shafi, the Healer”

I feel like one mistake that many of us make nowadays is that we think that it’s okay if we place the responsibility for healing from past traumas in other people’s hands. I understand that sometimes we just need support in order to get through things, but there’s some things that you need to heal from by yourself. You must come to learn that the power to heal lies within YOU. It’s like the more we rely on the dunya for things it’s not capable of doing, the more power we give to it. 

So when we rely on others to heal, we don’t actually heal. Rather we give others the power to hurt us even more. It’s because we haven’t come to terms with the pain we feel, and yet here we are, trying to heal yet creating more wounds. Haha!

I’m not saying that people are bound to hurt you, but healing should not be something you depend on others for. It should be something you do for yourself. And even then.. healing is something that only Allah can help you with. Which is why He is called the Al-Shafi, the Healer.

So take your time for yourself to heal. Don’t rush the process. And know that it’s this way for a reason. Perhaps this healing process will teach you things you won’t learn otherwise. Be patient with yourself, just like you’re patient with others. You deserve healing.. and you deserve to be the one to heal yourself. And maybe through the healing, you’ll come to understand just how strong you are.”

It is not easy, i know. i feel you. But, we have to start learn to stand our hope in best Healer, Allah..